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Two Men Kissing June 14, 2016

I’m sad. I’m sad that so many innocent lives were taken in Orlando. Why are gay men the target of so much hatred and their sexuality such a taboo in our culture? How could the idea of two men kissing possibly send someone into such a rage that they go on the biggest killing spree…

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In support of nightlife June 8, 2016

This story on gentrification in New York could be the same story in London, Berlin, Portland. Any of the Kinky Salon cities. Mission Control started it’s life on a grotty part of Mission Street 15 years ago and we watched as the neighborhood changed until we were finally evicted. Now we’ve taken up residence in a…

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The Search for a Forever Home Continues June 5, 2015

Since we lost our home on Mission Street an awesome team of dedicated folks have continued, unceasingly, the search for a new forever home. Although social media might tell you that finding a space in the Bay Area is impossible, and that big business has pushed the arts and counter culture out completely, I wanted…

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The Pollination and Propagation of
Kinky Salons  May 8, 2015

Have you wondered what it takes to open a new Kinky Salon? I’m currently talking to budding teams in Seattle, San Luis Obispo, Denver, and the beautiful island of Ibiza in the Mediterranean Sea. It’s a process that usually takes a few months from the first time I’m contacted to the first Kinky Salon. In…

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Report from the Road April 10, 2015

  Another Friend, Another Community I feel like I’ve been on the road forever. I live out of a suitcase and sleep in unknown beds. I don’t know the people I’m staying with before I arrive, but by the time I leave we are best friends. I fly into each city exhausted and excited, ready…

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Letter to the London Times March 12, 2015

Written in response to this article in the Sunday Times about Kinky Salon There’s a story that San Francisco sex culture is teeming with uber rich, hedonistic Silicon Valley playboys. The outside world seems to be infatuated with the idea that vast wealth and hedonistic sexuality go hand in hand. It’s a compelling image to portray—with…

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We Create Culture February 14, 2015

We create culture. You and I and our parents and our ancestors. We are all a part of it. Nobody is exempt from this great communal task. Culture is like a giant homunculus, given life through the lives we live. Rearing its giant head, it looks at us with vacant eyes. How should I feel?…

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Patreons and Podcasts and YouTube, OH MY! January 18, 2015

  I’m ready to let the world know about what we’ve been up to in this little sex culture bubble of ours. I want to shout it from the rooftops! But that’s rather impractical, so instead I’m going to start a Podcast and a YouTube channel. On Kinky Salon Confessions you’ll be able to hear…

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The Sex Culture Book Fair January 12, 2015

The Sex Culture Book Fair was this weekend and it blew my mind. Jeff Ray from Adobe Books and David from Belle SF Magazine first came to me in October and said, “let’s collaborate.” They let me loose brainstorming ideas, but none of us had any idea how it would all work out. First time…

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