I’m sad. I’m sad that so many innocent lives were taken in Orlando. Why are gay men the target of so much hatred and their sexuality such a taboo in our culture? How could the idea of two men kissing possibly send someone into such a rage that they go on the biggest killing spree…
Have you wondered what it takes to open a new Kinky Salon? I’m currently talking to budding teams in Seattle, San Luis Obispo, Denver, and the beautiful island of Ibiza in the Mediterranean Sea. It’s a process that usually takes a few months from the first time I’m contacted to the first Kinky Salon. In…
Written in response to this article in the Sunday Times about Kinky Salon There’s a story that San Francisco sex culture is teeming with uber rich, hedonistic Silicon Valley playboys. The outside world seems to be infatuated with the idea that vast wealth and hedonistic sexuality go hand in hand. It’s a compelling image to portray—with…
We create culture. You and I and our parents and our ancestors. We are all a part of it. Nobody is exempt from this great communal task. Culture is like a giant homunculus, given life through the lives we live. Rearing its giant head, it looks at us with vacant eyes. How should I feel?…
I’m ready to let the world know about what we’ve been up to in this little sex culture bubble of ours. I want to shout it from the rooftops! But that’s rather impractical, so instead I’m going to start a Podcast and a YouTube channel. On Kinky Salon Confessions you’ll be able to hear…
The Sex Culture Book Fair was this weekend and it blew my mind. Jeff Ray from Adobe Books and David from Belle SF Magazine first came to me in October and said, “let’s collaborate.” They let me loose brainstorming ideas, but none of us had any idea how it would all work out. First time…
I remember the moment I decided to shave my pubic hair. I was at an afterparty in London with a dozen or so friends. They were fetish models and photographers. I was finally hanging with the scene makers and I wanted desperately to belong. We had been out to a fetish club and stayed up…
Dear Ass, Congratulations on your recent media attention. It’s a telling time in history when a woman’s ass can be more famous than the woman. With your undeniably impressive proportions and your ceaseless media exposure you have achieved a status in our culture previously only available to people. As a sexual object, oiled and buffed…
There’s sooooo much happening at the book launch party it’s going to be quite the spectacle. Don’t expect readings or traditional book launch activities. This is a celebration and a rally for sex culture. BUY YOUR TICKETS NOW! Join Polly and her co-conspirators at this VICTORY event, celebrating the launch of her memoir Polly: Sex…
Listen to me having a conversation with Erik Davis about sexual objectification, Miley Cyrus, sex culture and Kinky Salon. http://expandingmind.podbean.com/e/expanding-mind-sex-culture-091414/