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Preparing to Expose Myself April 28, 2014

Four years ago I made a plan. Write a book, and expand Kinky Salon into new cities. As I send the book to print, I’m working with the hosts of Kinky Salon London, Copenhagen, Berlin, New Orleans, Portland and New York to create a solid structure for the expansion of the global Kinky Salon movement.…

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Slutty Teen Adventures February 7, 2014

I reached my Kickstarter goal for today, so as promised here’s an excerpt from the book. This story is about the first time I went to a fetish club… As Abby and I both turned sweet sixteen she found a listing in the back pages of Skin Two for a party scheduled to happen in…

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An Open Letter to Sex October 6, 2013

After Miley Cyrus’ recent spate of twerking, Sinéad O’Connor wrote her an open letter, you can read it here: http://www.sineadoconnor.com/2013/10/open-letter-to-miley-cyrus/ Then Amanda Palmer wrote an open letter to Sinéad http://amandapalmer.net/blog/20131003/ Then Ann Magnuson wrote an open letter to open letters http://pleasekillme.com/ann-magnusons-open-letter-to-an-open-letter/ … which is awesome. I thought I would weigh in on the debate with…

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The Moral Minority April 12, 2013

  Please don’t mistake my support for sex positive culture and alternative lifestyle as a lack of morality. In fact it’s quite the opposite. I have a set of personal ethics and a moral code which I take extremely seriously. So who are the Moral Minority? They are the people who try to live ethical…

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Latex is dead. LONG LIVE LATEX March 15, 2013

I was browsing on Amazon the other day and made a discovery. There’s a company in China ripping off classic fetish designs and making latex clothes at hugely discounted prices. Exact copies of famous designs for half the price! Not only that, but they’re also selling some really freaky deaky pervy shit. Type ‘bondage latex catsuit’  into…

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Sexual Identity March 12, 2013

The concept of a fixed sexual identity is something that has always seemed mystifying to me. Surely the sexual possibilities available to me are limited solely by the scope of my vision? There are some things that appeal to me more than others, and some things that might even make me feel uncomfortable, but why…

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Sex- Positive September 9, 2012

Let’s face it, sex has a bad rap. It’s cited as nothing short of the root of all evil by many religions- our sexual desire being held responsible for our fall from grace. Thinly veiled snake references and mass misogyny have left our sub consciouses seething with guilt and self hatred at our lack of…

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Tantra July 12, 2012

Tantra is a big topic. There are many different opinions, and I don’t pretend to be an expert on them, but it plays a big part in my life so I will do my best to explain the basic premise: Tantric teachings say that we have a life force flowing through our bodies, and with…

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On the radio with Sexploration with Monika December 20, 2011

Being on the radio with Monika was like hanging out with Monika for an hour talking about the things we love. Only you get to hear it… http://sexplorationwithmonika.libsyn.com/webpage/sexual-economics-monogamy-scarcity-and-creating-abundance-in-your-pants-

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