Back in November 2011 I was lucky enough to speak on a panel with Christopher Ryan. If you haven’t read his bestselling book Sex at Dawn, you should do it now- I really do believe that it’s one of the most important books of our generation. ktbanner Anyway, after the panel we stayed in touch and threw some ideas back and forth. He talked about how his presentations were always such a great place to meet smart, unconventional thinking people, and he started to suspect that they weren’t there to see him, but instead were more interested in meeting each other. He saw this as an opportunity to create community, and I jumped at the chance to collaborate with him. Since then we have created a community website for people who are questioning the dominant relationship paradigm. We called it Kotango, and it’s just about the most interesting social network on the internet. But I would say that, wouldn’t I? Go and check it out and see for yourself.



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Polly Whittaker is a 21st century sex culture revolutionary. She has dedicated her life to sexually progressive community, as an acclaimed latex fashion designer, a creator of arty, sexy parties, and a spokesperson for sex culture. Born in London, England, in 1974, she is the daughter of a hot air balloon pilot and a sex therapist. She relocated to San Francisco—home of the sexual revolution—in 1999. Her award-winning event, Kinky Salon, takes place in a dozen cities across Europe and North America. She recently joined forces with Christopher Ryan, Author of NYT Bestselling Book Sex at Dawn to create Kotango.com—a social network for global sex culture.

Kotango March 13, 2013