Everyone’s talking
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Welcome to my virtual book tour! Polly: Sex Culture Revolution will be featured in the following blogs, podcasts, and articles across the world wide web. Join me everyday as I gather together the visionaries of sex culture.I’ll be giving away a free LIMITED EDITION signed hardcover book every day of the tour! Just visit the article for the day and make a comment. The best comment of the day wins!



 Wednesday, December 10






DAY ONE: We kick off the Sex Culture Revolution tour with a Q&A on Reddit. That means I’ll be available to answer your questions about anything!




Bawdy has posted a video of my storytelling debut.




Bawdy Storytelling is the Nation’s Original Sex and Storytelling show, and it all started in Polly’s hometown of San Francisco. This award-winning storytelling event – monthly in multiple cities – features Real people and Rockstars telling their bona fide sexual exploits, live before your very eyes. Bawdy’s storytellers are an eclectic mix of authors, poets, comedians, actors, sex educators and career perverts, along with regular people just like you who have submitted their stories online and were chosen for their panache and sense of misadventure. Through coaching, rehearsals and more, each month’s show is created from audience submissions and a celebrity or two. Want Bawdy in your city? Contact Dixie De La Tour to find out how!

 Thursday, December 11


CLICKHEREDAY TWO of the tour takes us to my dear friend Kitty Stryker, host of the popular blog Purrversitility and controversial voice of consent culture. She kicks ass.

About KittyBy day, I’m a presenter/writer/cat herder, assistant pornographer at TROUBLEfilms, and freelance marketer. By night? I’m a geeky porn starlet, queer sex klown, and pervy My Little Pony, reinventing porn culture by exploding one tired trope at a time.I’m an experienced, well-educated speaker/performer around many aspects of sexuality, from threesomes and bondage to the history of institutionalizing of sexual expression to the psychology of kink!I do a lot of activism work, particularly with Consent Culture around addressing boundary violations and the effects of -isms within the kink/altsex community.


CLICKHEREPLUS I’ll be stopping everyone’s favorite local BDSM coffee shop to chat with the perverts there over a nice cuppa with Psychokitty.

About Wicked Grounds: San Francisco’s first and only kink cafe and boutique. We have a full cafe in San Francisco (see our full menu here!), and host a wide variety of BDSMand related events, including workshops, classes, social gatherings, and munches.


Friday, December 12


CLICKHEREDAY THREE and we’re bringing out the big guns! Betty Dodson, famous sex expert, artist, and old school sex party hostess has invited me to write an article for her website and I couldn’t be more honored. She’s an ICON of sex culture.

About Betty Dodson: Artist, author, and PhD sexologist has been one of the principal voices for women’s sexual pleasure and health for over three decades.  Betty continues her private practice as a sex coach in New York City.
Dodson had the first one-woman show of erotic art in ’68 in NYC followed by three others. She produced and presented the first feminist slide show of vulvas at the 1973 NOW Sexuality Conference in New York where she introduced the electric vibrator as a pleasure device. For 25 years, she ran Bodysex groups where women learned about their bodies and orgasms through the practice of self-stimulation. Her first book, Liberating Masturbation: A Meditation on Selflove (’74) became a feminist classic.

 Saturday, December 13


CLICKHEREDAY FOUR award winning blogger, Violet Blue, will be posting an excerpt of the book and sexing things up.

About Violet Blue: Violet is an investigative tech reporter at CNET, Zero Day, ZDNet, and CBS News, as well as an award-winning sex author and columnist, making her the foremost expert in the field of sex and technology.  Blue is an often censored educator, speaker, crisis counselor, NGO trainer who was the locus of Google’s nymwars, the first female podcaster, she won a Federal lawsuit to stop an impersonator and lost a domain to Libya. Blue is a member of both The Internet Press Guild and The Center for Investigative Reporting, and an Advisor at Without My Consent. Her 13-year-old sexuality blog TinyNibbles is awarded and infamous.

 Sunday, December 14


CLICK HEREDAY FIVE and the tour will focus on sex and relationships at the “Personal Life Media” site with Susan Bratton. She went above and beyond and wrote THREE articles! See the three links below



Sex Party Goers Share Passionate Lovemaking Techniques

What Kinky People Can Teach You About Having Hot Sex Life

Orgasmically Challenged?

About Susan: Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for every man and woman who dreams of a passionate relationship. As CEO of Personal Life Media, Susan has authored 20 books and programs including Relationship Magic, The Passion Patch, 30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic and Revive Her Drive. Susan is known for her compassion and fearlessness in teaching the fundamental techniques and communication skills that make for crazy-good sex and deeply connected relationships. And who doesn’t want a little more of that? She distills these basics into simple practices that millions of her fans and followers use to get on an upward pleasure spiral that lasts a lifetime.



CLICKHEREPLUS the popular website featuring sexually empowered women kicking ass and being awesome will be reviewing my book!

About Slutty Girl Problems: Shattering traditional perceptions of female sexuality, combining a classy attitude with a steamy sex drive, affirming that the two are not mutually exclusive.  The #1 online community resource for sex-positive young women by giving young women a space to honestly and openly express themselves, discuss their experiences, and connect with one another.  Create an open dialogue about sexuality, eliminate slut-shaming, and make the world a more sex-positive place for young women.


Monday, December 15

CLICKHEREDAY SIX You’ll find me over at Ashley Manta and Katie Mack’s popular podcast Carnalcopia

About CarnalcopiaCarnalcopia is a sex and relationship podcast hosted by two best friends. Katie Mack is brand new to the sex positive community and Ashley Manta is a seasoned sexuality educator and writer. Let’s face it – life is hard sometimes, but at least we have each other.




AirialClarkCLICKHEREPLUS I’m heading over to the Sex Positive Parent to talk about sex culture in the context of parenting. Not having kids, you might wonder why. We’re going to talk about my relationship with my parents!

About Airial Clark: Airial Clark is a San Francisco Bay Area based parenting expert and sexologist. After receiving a bachelor’s degree in both Anthropology and English Literature at U.C. Berkeley, she was offered admission to the only human sexuality master’s program in the U.S. at San Francisco State University. She completed research for her master’s thesis on race, family structures and alternative sexuality in 2012, all while raising her two sons as a single parent.

 Tuesday, December 16


CLICKHEREDAY SEVEN it just keeps getting better! Marcia Baczynski, sex coach and co-founder of “Cuddle Party” chats with me about my book and our epic friendship.

About Marcia: Marcia Baczynski is a sex educator and relationship coach who works to provide people with practical tools to create extraordinary relationships. Her primary mission is to help people overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want—romantically, sexually and relationally—even if it’s off the beaten path.Marcia works with a select group of clients one-on-one each year, teaches workshops, and leads ongoing group classes in the Bay Area and throughout North America.

 Wednesday, December 17

Eve-MinaxCLICKHEREDAY EIGHT we’re going multimedia again for a video interview with the fabulously kinky Eve Minax, Kink Educator.

About Eve: Presenter and Pleasure Artist Eve Minax delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. She is a lifestyle and professional Domina  A Kink Coach, and an Interior Designer. Dedicated to sharing her expertise, Minax has served as Lead Staff Instructor for the Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts for 12 years. San Francisco Sex Information, (SFSI) trained and always exploring, she exercises her pedagogical skills at a variety of national and local conferences, BDSM Clubs, and Sex Shops.

As a long term Urban Tantrika, Minax has had the honor of assisting Barbara Carellas in presenting Urban Tantra. She is also a certified Bondassage Practitioner who CO-AUTHORED the Bondassage book! Eve has self produced over 20 BDSM videos, partnering with SeriousBondage.comaliceinbondageland.com, and KinkAcademy.com. Additionally, she revels in guest appearing on podcasts and radio shows.
Eve Minax maintains a loving and extended leather family throughout the world while residing in San Francisco, where she writes and coaches about BDSM/kink and expresses her passion for kink-friendly homes.


smutforsmartiesCLICKHEREPLUS I’ll be sharing an exclusive excerpt from my book with the fabulous Elle Chase of Smut for Smarties.



Aellechasebout Elle Chase:  Sex educator, writer and sex coach, Elle Chase gained her sex ed certification from the prestigious San Francisco Sex Information Sex Educator Training Program. She is best known as the creator, curator & editor of two award-winning and highly trafficked sexuality websites; www.LadyCheeky.com (NSFW),  and its companion editorial site www.SmutForSmartie

s.com. Last year, LadyCheeky.com was named one of Salon.com’s ‘The Best of Tumblr Porn’ and LA Weekly chose SmutForSmarties.com as ‘Best Sex Blog” for their Best of the Web Awards 2013.


Trish Causey

CLICKHEREPLUS: THIS JUST IN…Listen to Polly on “ArousedWoman Radio with Trish Causey” is for everyone who loves Arts, Activism, & Awakening in Mind, Body, & Spirit. ArousedWoman Radio is an amalgam of everything that interests me — from sex to spirituality, from health to human rights, from books to Broadway shows.  Whether the topic is women’s sexual health, meditation, GMO-foods, holistic living, spirituality and religion, and even some politics, you’ll find it here … all those touchy topics you’re not supposed to discuss on a first date — but should!

 Thursday, December 18


CLICKHEREDAY NINE: I’ll be chatting with the fabulous host of Sex Ed A Go-Go who I fell in love with during my last trip to New York.

About Dirty LolaDirty Lola is a storyteller, a blogger, and the creator / host of the live adult sex ed. Q&A show and podcast Sex Ed. A Go-Go. She has spent the last four years sharing her journey into kink and polyamory with the twitterverse and blogosphere. When she’s not off gallivanting with her husband and their poly pod she can be found in Brooklyn dating, writing dirty stories and peddling sex toys to the masses.

Twitter handles: @DirtyLola  @SexEdAGoGo
Website: www.SexEdAGoGo.com

download CLICKHEREPLUS Cooper from Life on the Swingset is going to write a review of my book. Can’t wait to hear what he has to say! His first impression from reading chapter one was to call me a “kindred spirit”.  AWWW!About Life on the Swingset: It was started as a primer to the lifestyle for those just starting their exploration, those who are simply considering the idea, and those already on board this crazy ride on the swingset.  We’ve assembled a wonderful collection of open minded and friendly people to contribute blogs, sex toy reviews, and podcasts, and to discuss a very unique Lifestyle with gusto and enthusiasm.

 Friday, December 19

Minx CLICKHEREDAY TEN we’re visiting darling of the polyamory scene, Cunning Minx, at her PolyWeekly Podcast.About PolyWeekly: Poly Weekly is a podcast devoted to tales from the front of responsible non-monogamy from a pansexual, kink-friendly point of view. Every week, Minx and her guests and horde of correspondents report on issues relating to communication, sex, kink, manners, dating, family and time management, with perspectives from all around the globe.

Saturday, December 20

CLICKHEREDAY ELEVEN we’re going out with a BANG! Superstar comedian Margaret is a huge fan of the book and called it a “masterpiece.” She’ll be telling us what she loved about the book, and chatting about what it’s like to be the world’s most famous bisexual pervert.

About MargaretAmerican comedian, fashion designer, actress, author, and singer-songwriter. Cho, of Korean ancestry, is best known for her stand-up routines, through which she critiques social and political problems, especially those pertaining to race and sexuality. She has also directed and appeared in music videos and has her own clothing line. She has frequently supported LGBT rights and has won awards for her humanitarian efforts on behalf of women, Asians, and the LGBT community. (from wikipedia)













Polly Whittaker is a 21st century sex culture revolutionary. She has dedicated her life to sexually progressive community, as an acclaimed latex fashion designer, a creator of arty, sexy parties, and a spokesperson for sex culture. Born in London, England, in 1974, she is the daughter of a hot air balloon pilot and a sex therapist. She relocated to San Francisco—home of the sexual revolution—in 1999. Her award-winning event, Kinky Salon, takes place in a dozen cities across Europe and North America. She recently joined forces with Christopher Ryan, Author of NYT Bestselling Book Sex at Dawn to create Kotango.com—a social network for global sex culture.

Everyone’s talking
about POLLY! November 25, 2014